Planning for a wedding is difficult, whether it is your wedding day of the wedding day of a loved one. Luckily, the information provided in the following article will offer tips and suggestions, so you are not only more informed but also better prepared when it comes to planning this very special event.
Aim for a mid-day reception. Most people will make plans after the reception, which minimizes the amount your guests may drink. Lunch receptions are usually cheaper than dinner ones, and you can use this to either get better food or apply funds towards another aspect of the wedding festivities.
Using potted plants can be a great alternative to expensive floral arrangements and the plants can be rented, planted at your new home afterwards, or given to guests as a memento. Plants in decorative glazed pots or terracotta tones will look great and save money. After the wedding, guests can take the potted plants home as a wedding favor, or the new couple can plant them in their yard.
Don't go overboard on decorating tables with flowers. A lot of times, the flowers may be getting in the guests' way. It's possible that there might be a few guests with flower allergies. In order to provide a romantic look, you can place unscented candles centered on the table.
One way this is done is by offering a menu consisting of popular ethnic dishes. Add an unusual twist with ethnic fare and edible wedding favors.
Plan an itinerary and post it online. Share this with your guests, so they are aware of what is happening when. Let people know what events, like the rehearsal etc., that they need to show up for, so they end up in the right place at the right time.
In order to prepare in dancing when it comes to your first dance, practice dancing a couple days before the wedding using a long skirt. Though you may have warmed up to your ability to move about in your skirt, it may be a bit cumbersome for your groom, so put on some music and dance together. This can get your soon-to be-husband used to any awkwardness he might feel, which can really happen with full-skirted dresses.
One thing you need to think about during the wedding planning process is what alcohol will be served, and how much you want to spend on it. Having an open bar can be very expensive if it stays open for hours. Ask the venue you're thinking of having the wedding at about the different types of alcohol they serve, and what they have in stock.
You don't need a big, expensive, flashy wedding cake. Talk to your local bakery owner about something smaller, or pre-cut into individual portions. Many bakeries offer small tarts or mini-cakes that come in healthier options, like fresh fruit-filled, gluten-free or vegan options.
Craigslist is a good place to check out local talent to assist with your wedding. Be sure to meet in person, and bring your groom along for safety, prior to handing over any money.
If you will not be serving a supper at the reception, think about using other furniture instead of tables and chairs. Lounge chairs, chaises and comfortable sectional pieces will help encourage interaction between your guests. Plush seating is also conductive to a relaxing time, and is comfortable for those with mobility issues. You can also use your furniture to customize your space.
If pregnant, make sure you keep in mind that you need to find a wedding dress that works with your body. Be certain to choose a gown that will fit you flatteringly, even as your body changes.
If dinner isn't being served at your reception, you should consider renting comfortable furniture instead of having tables for everyone to sit at. Lounge chairs, chaises and comfortable sectional pieces will help encourage interaction between your guests. Plush seating can also make guests feel more comfortable and relaxed; this also allows you to create separate lounge areas throughout the site.
You possibly want to think about fusing two or multiple menus together making the food available diverse and comfortable for everyone present. Make it different by including a selection of ethnic desserts, beverages, or wedding favors that you can eat.
Your wedding day can be very stressful, so plan it a little later in the day. This way, you will have ample time to get dressed and made up, rather than having to arise at 4am just to get everything done. If your time allows, do something for yourself that is relaxing and calms your nerves.
Consider the weather at the time of year you are planning your wedding. Your guests probably won't be willing to stay at your outdoor wedding and celebrate, when it's miserably hot. In the same vein, people may ditch your wedding if the heat isn't turned up high enough, during a winter event. Make accommodations, like having fans available if it's hot out.
You need to be able to trust other people to help with certain aspects of your wedding. Due to the fact that you are heavily invested emotionally in your wedding, this may be difficult to do because of your desire to have control over what happens. However, there may be a point when you are in over your head, and in such cases, it is important to recognize that it might be better to trust a more qualified professional to do the job properly.
Whilst you may feel guilty for not following family traditions or recommendations, you need to remember that your wedding day is yours, not theirs. Thank them for any suggestions and kindly decline their ideas with an explanation that it is your turn to make these decisions. As you reflect on that day when you had your wedding, you will not regret it.
For couples that enjoy traveling, look for wedding items and decorations that reflect this interest. Use a little artistic skill to get your invitations appearing like aged postcards from a far-away land. Get a vintage suitcase and use it as a display for your pictures or programs.
The lighting at the venue hosting your wedding's reception should be able to be dimmed. This might seem a tad bit trivial, but the option should be there if you prefer to have low lighting for your first dance, as opposed to brighter lighting for the other activities. Check with the venue about these specific options before booking anything for certain.
Have some faith in other people to help you plan your wedding. It is natural to want to participate in all aspects of planning, especially since your wedding is such a personal affair. However, you can definitely overdo it, and there will be times where you will have to trust professionals who have more expertise in a specific area.
Don't let wedding stress transform you from bride or groom to monster. You want to be your best self at your wedding rather than scare your fiancée into wondering what they are getting into. Use the information and tips from this article to make your wedding and wedding planning as stress-free as possible.
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